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"Pretty girls get away with making mistakes." Do you agree?

First of all, allow me to define all the terms that i am using. "Pretty" is very subjective word (after all, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, eh?). "Mistakes" is defined as something that is done wrong in the eyes of the superior.

Yesterday and today, I went to help out at ISSOWV (11th International Conference on Work and Values) organised by NBS and my prof (Stewart Lloyd Arnold whom i call SLAcker) and some other delegates. It's a great conference whereby delegates from the various institutions and universities come together to discuss their findings on human behaviour..

I got to know this girl (year 1 going onto year 2) called Joyce (her name has been changed to protect myself, i dun want anyone who knows her to come and beat me up! lolx). Apparently, Joyce does some roadshows (wearing fairy costumes to give flyers and similar stuff like that) to earn some big money (like $70 an hr). well, you tink she's pretty. honestly, i do not deny that she's good looking, very tanned and curvy. she's very confident, knows how to speak and act very hardworking in front of the ppl.

she can get along very well with guys, i must say. she had all the waiters twisting around her finger. haha.. i m not the sort of person to mingle around with every single person on the team, it's just not me. haha.. but on a one-to-one, i can get friendly with you.. to an outsider, it will appear that she's very hardworking and doing all the right things at the right time. well, not to me. i dun really like to get too close to her. haha..

back to my topic for today, just coz she's "pretty" to many, they will like to talk to her and even if she omits sth or commits a mistake, i dun think anyone will notice. me, on the other hand, not all attractive, won't get many delegates/waiters talking to me. what works for me is that, if i help someone, i will go out and see that matter till the end. i tend to give ppl the feeling that i m very earnest to help you in any way possible, even though i may not look pretty and confident. haha..

seeing joyce for the past 2 days has made me realised that pretty girls really can land better jobs, won't get reprimanded if they do sth wrong, get things done in a shorter time, get their hands on everything they want. pretty girls are ever so lucky, everyone wants to talk to them, they are pretty (and that means looking good in all types of clothes)!!! they have good frens, ppl who won't shun them just coz they are pretty, good parents, high-paying jobs..

so, is it good to be pretty? or is it better to be sincere? do share your thots with me on the tag board as i would really like to know how you guys think of this.